The bell jar

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the bell jar

The Bell Jar

People's lives are shaped through their success and failure in their personal
relationships with each other. The author Sylvia Plath demonstrates this in the novel, The
Bell Jar. This is the direct result of the loss of support from a loved one, the lack of
support and encouragement, and lack of self confidence and insecurity in Esther's life in
the The Bell Jar. It was shaped through her success and failures in her personal
relationships between others and herself.

Through life, we often lose someone we loved and cared deeply for and supported us through
life. This is demonstrated by the loss of a loved one when Esther's father died when she
was nine. "My German speaking father, dead since I was nine came from some
manic-depressive hamlet in the Prussia." (Sylvia Plath page 27.) Esther's father's death
had showed that she was in need of a father figure for love, support and to act as a model
for her life. Esther grew up with only the one influence of a parent, her


Often times the loss of a friendship can be a great loss of support and confidence
within our lives because we can lose them forever. This is demonstrated when Buddy
Willard Esther's boyfriend break up. "He told me that his annual fall chest x-ray showed
he had caught the Adirondacks" (Sylvia Plath pg. 58.) Buddy and
Esther break up due to the fact that he was not very honest with her in many ways.
He did not have the courage to admit to a certain side of his character and not only
that Buddy was diagnosed with an illness but he had other relationships aside from
Esther. Therefore Esther experienced another loss of a loved one.
Within life, we gain the support from someone that helps us get through life but often
times leaves us when we need them most. This is proven when Doreen; Esthers

co-worker at the modeling magazine begins to lose contact with Esther through life
"Doreen is dissolving... none of them mean anything anymore" (Sylvia Plath pg.17)
Doreen begins to lose contact with Esther throughout life, just when Doreen had
opened new doors to her. Esther was coming through a very difficult time in life, when
Doreen started drifting away from Esther. Once again, Esther experienced the loss and
support of a great friend and advocate.

Ones' life is made up by framework. You gather friends and folks together and in this
framework it clarifies your identity. You articulate and express opinions. You articulate
and express opinions. In framework and talk, you develop behavior patterns and
priorities and define framework in terms and languages. Esther did all this in her life.
But then she forgot who she was. She forgot her framework of reference and she talks

about success and failures and despair.

Individuals, need encouragement and support from loves ones to guide one through life.
This is seen in the lack of support and encouragement displayed when Esther's mother fails
to support and encourage Esther with her aspirations. No matter what Esther had wanted to
do with her life, her Mother had always wanted her to learn the skills of shorthand
because she would always have that skill in her life and also that was the one thing her
Mother had experienced in life. As a result, her Mother failed to enhance Esther with her
aspirations that she wanted from life.

We need the sustenance and assurance from not only loved ones in life, but also from
others. This is demonstrated when Jay Cee, Esther's present boss asked Esther what

she wanted to do with her life. Esther did not have any solid idea as to what she
wanted to do with her life. "You'll never get anywhere like that." (Sylvia Plath page 27)
Esther did not know what she especially wanted with her life. Jay Cee stated to Esther
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